play your position

Ok so this is probably going to hurt some feelings but whatever some shit needs to be said.
There are females out there who put themselves in certain positions they really don’t want to be in but they tolerate it for the sake of hope. When you ladies start talking to a dude knowing he probably wont take that step to make you his “girl” don’t get mad if after a month or two you still sitting on the bench, play the position you signed up for or cut… plain and simple. It seems as if a lot of you ladies are settling for less when you actually want more, doesn’t make sense to me but hey its not my life. If you want a dude to make you wifey you need to put yo bid in for that and not get the “ I got a lot of stuff going on right now, so I cant have a girl“… BUT do all the shit people in relationships do. If this is you, you can either wait to get called in off the bench if someone gets tired or injured or you can get traded to another team where you might be a starter.