excuses: everybody wants to play the "victim"

Today my boy said something that kinda stuck wit me for some reason, he said “ everybody need to stop blaming everybody else for their fuck-ups and take responsibility for they shit”. it seems as if today people have an excuse for just about everything that they do wrong or it is never their fault when things go bad. Its like our generation grows physically but is stunted in character and lack what it takes to actually be called a man or a woman, this generation is playing the victim all the time and no one is taking accountability for any of the shit that they do.
How many of you have said “ well if such and such woulda did this“, or “If he/she wouldn’t be” etc. you never hear anyone putting themselves into the equation when shit goes wrong, its never their fault. Its really time for us all to step in to our roles as men and women and own our shit whether its good or bad, be responsible and make good decisions, think shit through before acting and when shit doesn’t go the way you planned don’t play the victim unless you really are in fact a “victim”.