She's a walking masquerade stuck behind many different faces trying to find the right one to replace the one that shows her pain
She's a beauty dimmed by her inner fears, stricken by remnants of pain well rooted in her memories
Tears swallowed with shots of intoxicants, manipulation of the good ones are her due recompense
She knows he loves her, she knows he cares but the last guy loved her too
Loved her so much her bones broke as he showed her
Showered her in crimson rain and left her with a life long memory of him
Her light was dimmed by the darkness of turmoil, her plans foiled by inner confusion
Illusions plagued her road to sanity
Gripped by despair unable to rid herself from calamities chains
she mindlessly Wondered in circles around her broken heart in search of it's missing pieces
Who knows if she will discover her peace again
Monday, September 12, 2011
Monday, August 15, 2011
You Are What You Eat
Belief: The psychological state in which an individual holds a proposition or premise to be true.
Information, this is the bases of all human action, our beliefs are a direct result of the Information we receive and they drive us or keep us from crossing certain thresholds. Information manipulates our beliefs, beliefs creates our perception, and our perception rules our reality. We receive information from our environments and the people we associate with which can sway our beliefs in a positive direction or a negative, in turn creating our reality. Information->Belief->perception->information->belief.
We feed off information outles from source to source becoming only what we digest and take into our minds. If our sources are debilitating and unproductive we become dibilitating and unproductive people. We process our information, believe it to be true, and act only the way we know how. We can only change when we change our sources of information, meaning, our environments and the people we hang around. Once we do change our outlets we will see different results.
Changing a belief can be a difficult task depending on how relaible our source was and how much we depend on that belief. A belief can only be changed after it has be proven to be false or we decide to believe something else. Our beliefs can inhibit us if we let them, that's why it is always safe to have an open mind for different information to expand our thinking processes. We are a changing people, forever developing into greater forces wether they be good or bad and our sources of information will forever dictate our direction so always be mindful of what it is you're allowing yourself to eat.
Information, this is the bases of all human action, our beliefs are a direct result of the Information we receive and they drive us or keep us from crossing certain thresholds. Information manipulates our beliefs, beliefs creates our perception, and our perception rules our reality. We receive information from our environments and the people we associate with which can sway our beliefs in a positive direction or a negative, in turn creating our reality. Information->Belief->perception->information->belief.
We feed off information outles from source to source becoming only what we digest and take into our minds. If our sources are debilitating and unproductive we become dibilitating and unproductive people. We process our information, believe it to be true, and act only the way we know how. We can only change when we change our sources of information, meaning, our environments and the people we hang around. Once we do change our outlets we will see different results.
Changing a belief can be a difficult task depending on how relaible our source was and how much we depend on that belief. A belief can only be changed after it has be proven to be false or we decide to believe something else. Our beliefs can inhibit us if we let them, that's why it is always safe to have an open mind for different information to expand our thinking processes. We are a changing people, forever developing into greater forces wether they be good or bad and our sources of information will forever dictate our direction so always be mindful of what it is you're allowing yourself to eat.
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Love Therapy: Setting Boundaries and Being Understanding
In our generations relationships there are a lot boundaries being crossed and too much stubbornness ruining the stability of relationships. It is more than necessary to establish how far you are willing to go for the sake of your relationship and even more necessary to be understanding in it. There are too many people who have no limitations for what they will do to keep their relationship due to fear of starting over or being alone. At the same time people have too many limitations for what their partner cannot do in their relationship. Relationships can't function under those kinds of circumstances.
It is of the greatest importance to maintain your own identity within your relationship. Any and all relationships are a sum of two parts working together and should remain two parts in one circumstance to continue being considered a relationship. The feeling of love can be a consuming one, however, to be taken by that feeling to a point where you are no longer an independent operator in your relationships will result in you being drained of your ability to be conscious of boundaries you shouldn't cross. You will do things because you "love" them, ignore signs that are obvious to everyone observing them, and blame yourself for problems that arise in your situation (a situation because it's no longer a relationship).
Gaining understanding in a relationship is vital. To know your partners habits, likes, and dislikes are one thing, but to understand why those things exist the way they do in their lives is far more important. Understanding must be reached in relationships otherwise there will be resentments that could potentially damage the relationship later on. Arguments and misunderstandings are inevitable in all relationships,however, they are just learning experiences.
Certain boundaries are to be discussed in relationships especially dealing with Sexual romance. Many people have things they are not willing/comfortable to do sexually that their partner desires from them. These things are to be discussed and a mutual agreement should be reached.
It is of the greatest importance to maintain your own identity within your relationship. Any and all relationships are a sum of two parts working together and should remain two parts in one circumstance to continue being considered a relationship. The feeling of love can be a consuming one, however, to be taken by that feeling to a point where you are no longer an independent operator in your relationships will result in you being drained of your ability to be conscious of boundaries you shouldn't cross. You will do things because you "love" them, ignore signs that are obvious to everyone observing them, and blame yourself for problems that arise in your situation (a situation because it's no longer a relationship).
Gaining understanding in a relationship is vital. To know your partners habits, likes, and dislikes are one thing, but to understand why those things exist the way they do in their lives is far more important. Understanding must be reached in relationships otherwise there will be resentments that could potentially damage the relationship later on. Arguments and misunderstandings are inevitable in all relationships,however, they are just learning experiences.
Certain boundaries are to be discussed in relationships especially dealing with Sexual romance. Many people have things they are not willing/comfortable to do sexually that their partner desires from them. These things are to be discussed and a mutual agreement should be reached.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Love Therapy: Maintaining Consistency
Consistency, one of the top reasons why relationships fail. The reason why our women say "he doesn't do the things he used to" and the reason why our men say "she's not the same person I remember". Consistency is vital in our relationships and will make or break them. Consistency by definition means "an agreement or harmony of parts or features to one another or a whole", that being said, what are we agreeing on and where is our harmony that is necessary?
We as human beings are instinctively seeking the most comfortable and pleasurable circumstances, this is the only thing that is naturally consistent within our personalities. With a combination of life experience and external influence we develop an internal persona which influences our perspectives, decisions, and attractions. We let this persona develop what our idea of love is and that becomes an item of our basic instinct; to be comfortable and pleased, we have to fight our instinct.
People are continuously changing within relationships, however, love does not change. In order to have a sense of consistency we must embody a synonymous definition of love (ex. 1 Corinthians 13). As we hold on to our definition our personalities, as they mature and change, will never not seem consistent. The things we did at the beginning of our relationship will never go away, they will never seem old, and anything more will be residual.
Two persons agreement to love produces a harmony between
The two hearts, it allows them two apply every variable of their love to each other consistently. This doesn't mean that there won't be issues within the relationship but it does mean that issues will be solved with love and resentment should not exist. Maintain your consistency by upholding your agreement to love and fight against your instinct when your instinct becomes selfish.
We as human beings are instinctively seeking the most comfortable and pleasurable circumstances, this is the only thing that is naturally consistent within our personalities. With a combination of life experience and external influence we develop an internal persona which influences our perspectives, decisions, and attractions. We let this persona develop what our idea of love is and that becomes an item of our basic instinct; to be comfortable and pleased, we have to fight our instinct.
People are continuously changing within relationships, however, love does not change. In order to have a sense of consistency we must embody a synonymous definition of love (ex. 1 Corinthians 13). As we hold on to our definition our personalities, as they mature and change, will never not seem consistent. The things we did at the beginning of our relationship will never go away, they will never seem old, and anything more will be residual.
Two persons agreement to love produces a harmony between
The two hearts, it allows them two apply every variable of their love to each other consistently. This doesn't mean that there won't be issues within the relationship but it does mean that issues will be solved with love and resentment should not exist. Maintain your consistency by upholding your agreement to love and fight against your instinct when your instinct becomes selfish.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Love therapy: Destroy & Rebuild Foundations
In relationships we all must be aware that not everything old is compatible with the new. There are things that worked for us in our past relationships that may not work for us in our future ones. A relationship is much like a house that gets built from the ground up. If u want that house to last it must have a strong foundation. Lots of people build their homes using the blueprints of other peoples foundations, move in and everything slowly falls apart. The house is eventually destroyed and that foundation you laid remains until you decide to build a new one.
The entire process of destroying and rebuilding foundations starts with constructing your personal foundation. Prepare yourself with patience and understanding, identify what it is that you are searching for and be able to articulate it to whomever it is you decide to be involved with. You must also have the ability to recognize when a person isn't on the same page as you and make the proper adjustments as necessary i.e limiting interaction, calls, and be able to convey why you made your adjustment. After making any form of an adjustment you must remain firm in your decision (much like a foundation).
Make sure you build your foundation with constructive qualities and beliefs. A constructive foundation allows you to embody what what you need and after, you'll be able to impose your needs onto potential partners without forcing them to compromise their own values allowing them to keep their sense of self. This also allows them to give to you confidently and comfortably of themselves, nobody enjoys feeling like they are being taken from so be sure to make it easy for people to want to give to you.
It isn't difficult for a person to recognize another person who has a well constructed foundation. You have an outward expression of an embodied stronghold. Your confidence, mannerisms, and ability to communicate will manifest themselves more proficiently because of your strengthened foundation. Only those who have built strong foundations have the ability to withstand the weathering of a real relationship so, build on you before attempting to build with somebody.
The entire process of destroying and rebuilding foundations starts with constructing your personal foundation. Prepare yourself with patience and understanding, identify what it is that you are searching for and be able to articulate it to whomever it is you decide to be involved with. You must also have the ability to recognize when a person isn't on the same page as you and make the proper adjustments as necessary i.e limiting interaction, calls, and be able to convey why you made your adjustment. After making any form of an adjustment you must remain firm in your decision (much like a foundation).
Make sure you build your foundation with constructive qualities and beliefs. A constructive foundation allows you to embody what what you need and after, you'll be able to impose your needs onto potential partners without forcing them to compromise their own values allowing them to keep their sense of self. This also allows them to give to you confidently and comfortably of themselves, nobody enjoys feeling like they are being taken from so be sure to make it easy for people to want to give to you.
It isn't difficult for a person to recognize another person who has a well constructed foundation. You have an outward expression of an embodied stronghold. Your confidence, mannerisms, and ability to communicate will manifest themselves more proficiently because of your strengthened foundation. Only those who have built strong foundations have the ability to withstand the weathering of a real relationship so, build on you before attempting to build with somebody.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Again
You the love of my life
If you ever lost your memories of me and I had to earn your love all over again I would
I'd take the risk to lose you just to get those priceless moment back again I would
I'd go thru the awkward moment of meeting you, the one of kissing you and goin thru the extra mile just to get next to you
If I had to do it I'd run to the moment of the first time I'd seen your gorgeous smile
I'm thinking that if I knew then what I now we could've been here right now a whole lot sooner
Or how I could go back to when you used to think I had stop caring only for me to have found a new way to draw nearer to you
Yea I'd probably do it again above all because I'd get to revisit that moment when love really set in and I realized I never stopped having those moments because they are still happening.
So happily I'd love you all over again
I'd touch you right there again
Kiss you just like that again just to make you say I love you like you did the first time again.
Baby it doesn't even matter what state of mind you were in because once we were in love I'd gladly make you fall again.
If you ever lost your memories of me and I had to earn your love all over again I would
I'd take the risk to lose you just to get those priceless moment back again I would
I'd go thru the awkward moment of meeting you, the one of kissing you and goin thru the extra mile just to get next to you
If I had to do it I'd run to the moment of the first time I'd seen your gorgeous smile
I'm thinking that if I knew then what I now we could've been here right now a whole lot sooner
Or how I could go back to when you used to think I had stop caring only for me to have found a new way to draw nearer to you
Yea I'd probably do it again above all because I'd get to revisit that moment when love really set in and I realized I never stopped having those moments because they are still happening.
So happily I'd love you all over again
I'd touch you right there again
Kiss you just like that again just to make you say I love you like you did the first time again.
Baby it doesn't even matter what state of mind you were in because once we were in love I'd gladly make you fall again.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
My love
For it is thou you never knew me
Like a child and their toy
You've seem to have outgrew me
But I
The one who remembers how you felt
Cannot forget how you felt or outgrow you
Love remember I still know you
I tried so hard to show you
The love in me won't outgrow you
It's needs to know you
Intimacy throughout you
A need to give you real love
To desire to ascend love
Renew love
A new love
The right love
The I won't quit at night love
The day love
The surprising spurts of may love
The never ending hey love
What can I do to make love
To a love that doesn't sway love
That I refuse to hate love
There has to be a way love
I can get inside love
Your mind love
I want to defeat time love
This is fire love
That shoots you up much higher love
A mighty love
That I just can't fight it love
I might just love
The fact that you chose me love
I just can't lose my love
You expand my love
I hold you with both hands my love
Kiss you end to end my love
Just where do I begin my love
This should never end my love
Let's love this to the end my love
I'll only fight my love
To keep this love in flight my love
At night love
I'll send you to the sky my love
if you want the stars my love
I'll make a way to give you light my love
You're right my love
You're my right hand love
My bestfriend love
A beginning over and over my love
Tonight my love is where I just might my love
Take my love and place my love
In your heart my love
Let you take my love
As it makes You smile my love
I'll weep my love
Out these eyes that needs your love
To survive the miles of life my love
Will you be my wife my love
As eve was to Adam my love
We will be the first my love
To love above the rest my love
So say my love
Why did we ever part with love?
Like a child and their toy
You've seem to have outgrew me
But I
The one who remembers how you felt
Cannot forget how you felt or outgrow you
Love remember I still know you
I tried so hard to show you
The love in me won't outgrow you
It's needs to know you
Intimacy throughout you
A need to give you real love
To desire to ascend love
Renew love
A new love
The right love
The I won't quit at night love
The day love
The surprising spurts of may love
The never ending hey love
What can I do to make love
To a love that doesn't sway love
That I refuse to hate love
There has to be a way love
I can get inside love
Your mind love
I want to defeat time love
This is fire love
That shoots you up much higher love
A mighty love
That I just can't fight it love
I might just love
The fact that you chose me love
I just can't lose my love
You expand my love
I hold you with both hands my love
Kiss you end to end my love
Just where do I begin my love
This should never end my love
Let's love this to the end my love
I'll only fight my love
To keep this love in flight my love
At night love
I'll send you to the sky my love
if you want the stars my love
I'll make a way to give you light my love
You're right my love
You're my right hand love
My bestfriend love
A beginning over and over my love
Tonight my love is where I just might my love
Take my love and place my love
In your heart my love
Let you take my love
As it makes You smile my love
I'll weep my love
Out these eyes that needs your love
To survive the miles of life my love
Will you be my wife my love
As eve was to Adam my love
We will be the first my love
To love above the rest my love
So say my love
Why did we ever part with love?
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